I just watched the video by actor/author Hill Harper and one question that he said is "what is your greatest fear"? I think in any kind of relationship their is some kind of fear that is lurking around. And in my relationship with my husband it's the fear of losing him not with any women but death. I am more younger than my spouse and thinking about it just made me cry. At first, when I thought about it I cried and my head ache and it affected my attitude for the whole day. He doesn't have any idea what is going on and I am the kind of person who doesn't talked about what is going on in my head. You see I am a Filipina we have different culture as other race and it's hard to open up. Which leads to my understanding that.....
Communication is the key of any relationship. My hubby always assures me that what ever I say he will not get hurt just say something. So I did. I gathered all my strength to say something about my fear and I did really cry I even didn't finished my point but he did understand what I mean. Good thing that he understand and he was thankful that I opened up to him and not just sulked and say nothing.
It's hard if you can't open or be honest to your husband. I've talked to my girlfriends about their marriages too and some have a hard time opening up most specially about their sex life. Which for me in marriage is very important. I can talk anything to my husband about our sex life about what have to do and what not to do and it does help in our relationships.
This morning I found this site tips on keeping your relationship fresh and I immediately get engrossed to this site. Many issues there are so true and it helps when you can find online a site the makes sense. That it helps you build a strong relationship with your husband at the same time you can share the site to your husband because it's a good one. This morning as I read some of the topics I told my hubby that he has to read some of it too and you know what he says, he said you gonna read it for me and we are going to discuss it. That is so cool I love discussing or sharing thoughts about any matter because I found out that men are men and women are women. There are many things that happened in life that we can compliment each other and not compete with each other. Which makes life easy and happy.
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